A couple of weeks ago, I decided to sign Tyler up for a free introductory class at The Little Gym. It’s a place that has various gymnastic-style classes for kids of all ages. Tina had Josh in these classes from the time he was really young, and they always enjoyed them.
We haven’t put Tyler into any sports or any type of classroom settings where he has a teacher that he has to listen to. This may prove to have been a mistake on our part. I think I’ve talked before about how when he is in a new situation, he gets really quiet and shy. Today was not different, and was actually quite a bit more than that. He was excited to go in at first, but about 5 minutes later, his face got red and it was clear that he was trying to hold in his tears. This didn’t last long though, and a few seconds later he erupted into tears and came running for the door. There were only two other kids and the teacher and they had the whole room to themselves. He was not interested in the little songs and stretches they did during the warm-up, and he just didn’t want to be out there! He cried for awhile, and then Dave convinced him to go back in and give it a try. He did, but it only lasted about a minute and a half before the water works started again. He spent about 40 minutes of the 60 minute class doing this (and crying) and begging us to go in there with him.
I have to mention that I am so glad that Dave was there with me. He talked to Tyler about why he should go in there and have fun, and we told him that when he starts school, he’ll have to get used to being in a class with other kids and a teacher. He couldn’t get over his want for one of us to be in there with him. Finally, Dave gave in and said he’d go in and sit at the back of the room and watch. It took a few more minutes for him to ease into it, but of course, once he did, he had a great time.
The other hard part was keeping Ava from opening the door and running into the gym area. She certainly wasn’t scared to go in! That was another reason I couldn’t have done this without Dave. He took care of Tyler while I kept Ava busy, and out of trouble. After class was over, Ava went in and climbed around a little bit, and loved it. At this point, Tyler loved it too!
They said we could come back for another free trial day and see if Tyler does better next time, so we’ll probably do that. It’s sort of expensive, but might make for a fun summer activity. Although, I wish both kids could be in the same class together. As it stands, there aren’t many evening classes, and Ava’s age group (which is with a parent) and Tyler’s are on different nights. I don’t think we’d want to drive out there two nights a week.
What we learned is that we have approximately 3 months to get Tyler into as many programs and group activities as possible to help his transition to school be much more smooth and much less traumatic!
*Don’t mind the crummy pictures…I only had my phone.