Ten years ago today, I took my first ever swing on the trapeze. Ten years ago today, my life changed forever, yet I wouldn't know the full effect of saying yes to that invitation for awhile.
How do I even begin to write about an experience that so profoundly changed my life? Any of you that have been around for even the last month of my life, or the last ten years know how important trapeze is to me. It has led me to a community of friends who have become family, a determination to becoming stronger, opportunities to travel, accomplishments I never thought possible, and friendships around the world. Simply because I said yes to an invitation to try something new.
This seems like a great opportunity to tell the story of how I started trapeze. I get asked the question all the time by people who find out that I am a trapeze artist, "how did you get into this?" I tell various versions of the story depending on who I'm talking to, but in general, it goes a little something like this.
My boss at the time, Meredith, was chatting with her doctor about their hobbies. Meredith is an endurance athlete, competing in marathons and triathlons. George (her doctor) pulled out his phone to show her videos, and to tell her about his hobby and side business, the trapeze school he ran out of his backyard. Somehow, the idea of a trapeze class as a team building activity for our MCC students came up, and George invited Meredith to bring some colleagues out to give it a try. I was one of those lucky colleagues that was invited. It's too early to say that the rest was history, but it definitely peaked my interest.
I had some nerves, but no hesitation. I've never really had any fear of heights, and I trusted the safety lines and the coaches. I was the first one up the ladder to do a knee hang, and I nailed it on my first try. Here is a photo of George holding my belt for my very first trick. In case you're not familiar, a newbie always has their belt held by an instructor to help ensure they don't peel off the bar when they jump from the platform. The person holding your belt also serves you the bar so you can get both hands on it before you take off (the one handed take off comes later).
What did I think of my first swing? Well, you tell me. This smile says it all, don't you think? Yes, that's me. I was a little, um, fluffier. Oh, and I had braces.
Our group consisted of Kim, Meredith, Samantha and me, and here we are with Colby, who was the main coach and catcher for what used to be known as Arizona Trapeze School. Fun story,
I ran into Colby a few years later when Dave and I were in Turks and Caicos for our 11th anniversary.
I didn't know it at the time, but this photo would become so special to me. It's my very first picture with George, the person who would be the catalyst and compass for the change in trajectory my life would take. I am eternally grateful to this man, and the profound impact he's had on my life.

It wasn't immediately after this first class that I became a regular flyer at George's rig. I did go a month later with a group of friends, which included Heather and Craig, Becky and Brian, Meredith and a few others. It was a fun date night, but even then, I didn't think it would be something I'd do regularly. It was about $50 per class, if I remember right, which didn't seem like something I would be willing or able to do very often. Shortly after that second class, Meredith shared the bad news with me that George closed down the school. I didn't know why at the time, but I would find out later that it had to do with zoning and his neighbors. It's a longer story than that (especially the piece about the neighbor), but that's enough for now. I was bummed to hear that I wouldn't get to try trapeze again, but I was glad I had the opportunity to say I'd done it.
Fast forward a few months to the end of January of 2013. I got a message at work from Meredith that just said "do you want to fly again?" I said "of course I do, but I thought the school closed?" She told me that she had gone to see George for an appointment, and he invited her to come out again. He explained that he closed the school, but that he still had the trapeze in his yard and used it with friends. He couldn't charge any money since it wasn't a business anymore (again, the zoning thing), but we were still welcome to come out and try it again. This is where I can say "....and the rest is history."
This time out there was quite a bit different than the other two. Instead of being in a class with a bunch of newbies, I was getting to fly with people who had been doing it for awhile, both at the other school in town and at George's place. I was blown away at how good everyone was, and felt very new. Everyone was very welcoming, encouraging, and supportive, just like we still are when someone tries trapeze for the first time. We all remember that feeling! Little did I know that some of those people would become some of my best friends, teammates and trusted companions. After that practice, I was told "we're out here twice a week, you're welcome to come back anytime." I'm not sure if they meant it, or expected me to take them up on the offer, but I took this invitation very seriously. I was there the following week with Meredith, and the week after that on my own (she never really came back after that time). From that point on, I was fortunate to become a regular member of the group, and it was truly the invitation that would change my life forever. There's much more to the story, but that's the gist of it. I think that one invitation will go down as one of the most impactful moments in my life.
So, here we are, ten years later. I could go on and on about the amazing experiences I've had, the memories made, the accomplishments, and more than anything else, the friends I've made. If I had to quit doing trapeze today, I would be filled with a lifetime of amazing memories and the greatest feeling accomplishment. I am the person I am today because of this place, these people, and this sport. How did I ever get so lucky to have stumbled on this magical backyard? I don't know, but I am forever grateful.
I asked George to take a 10 year trapez-iversary photo with me tonight. What do you think? Do we look ten years older? I think it's safe to say I'm in better shape than I was at at age 33 when I tried this for the first time. Other than my husband, I'm not sure there's another person who has had a bigger impact on my adult life than George. He's the kindest, most generous person I know and I know he'll be a friend for life.
I had to put these two photos side by side to really see the difference. Somehow, I got taller or George got shorter. I think it's probably more likely that I have more confidence and stand a little taller ten years later. I know it's just one of the many things this sport has given me. Here's to ten more years of flying with my wonderful friends!
For some more history, here is the post I wrote about my
first and
second trapeze experiences, and then the one I wrote after I went back in
January 2013. The videos from back in those days are pretty bad--very dark and we had some noisy safety lines! It's so crazy to see the progression from where I was then to now. What an amazing ride it's been!