August 31, 2013

Hailey’s birthday party

Hailey turned 8 recently, and she invited Ava to her birthday swim party on Saturday.  Hailey had about 12 friends from school, plus Lacy, Sydney and Ava.  Nothing like a house full of little girls to make  you glad you only have two kids!  No, it was fine—the girls all played really nicely, and spent most of the party in the pool.  Of course, Kathy and Joe have the perfect backyard for a swim birthday party, which we’ve taken advantage of for plenty of Tyler’s birthdays.  Talon went with Dave and Tyler for the day (they went bowling), and I hung out at the party and was the designated photographer.  Here are just a few pictures from the day.

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Tina made this awesome Hello Kitty cake for Hailey. She’s become quite the cake maker!

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Lawn Twister!

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Ava sat so patiently waiting for her turn to give Hailey her gift.  Turns out, it was one of her favorites!  We got her a little kit to weave her own bracelets out of little mini rubber bands, and apparently it’s her new “obsession.”  She got a kit from another friend too, and all the kids screamed with excitement when the gift was opened.  I guess it was a hit!  Happy birthday Hailey!

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A little about what I’ve been up to lately…

I know this blog is mostly about the kids, and the family things we do together, but I have to tell you about a little change in lifestyle that I’ve undergone.  It all started just after I visited JoEllen in Fargo at the beginning of May.  She was still trying to loose a little bit of baby weight after having Paizley, and she was using an app on her phone called My Fitness Pal (MFP). It is a calorie journaling app that lets you set a fitness goal and then it calculates how many calories you should be eating each day to reach that goal.  There are millions of foods, restaurants, and meals already entered into their database, so it makes it easy to enter the different things you eat each day. It also remembers meals you’ve used, so you can just copy them from one day to the next if its something you eat regularly.  You also enter all of your exercise, which ends up giving you more calories that you are allowed to eat for the day.  Dave had used this app last summer when he decided he wanted to loose some weight, and it was really helpful for him too.  He, by the way, has lost over 30 pounds since one day in June when he stepped on the scale and saw 199.  Not wanting to ever go over 200, he decided it was time to do something about that, which was when he started MFP.  He had never really paid any attention to what he was eating, and didn’t know the calorie amounts in all of his usual meals.  Add that to being on the road every day for work and having to eat fast food most days, and it added up.  For him, just knowing what he was eating—and cutting out regular soda and beer—made a huge difference. Dave has since added quite a bit of exercise, mostly weight training to his routine, and he looks awesome.  Most of you would say “how in the world did he have 30 pounds to loose?!”  Well, apparently he did because the change is impressive.

Ok, back to me.  I decided after I visited JoEllen that it was my turn to set a goal and make an effort to reach it.  I set a goal to loose 10 pounds, which didn’t seem like much, but I knew it would be enough to make a difference.  I also had no idea if it was reasonable or attainable. The added incentive for me in all of this is that I really want to get better at trapeze.  I am so in love with this new sport that I have a crazy new motivation to do whatever it takes to get better.  MFP has been so helpful for me because it forced me to be accountable for all of the things I eat throughout the day.  I’ve never really had a weight problem, and eat a fairly healthy diet for the most part, but I am also prone to snacking and especially to sweets.  It also helped me to see how many calories were in particular things, which helped me to make better choices about what I ate.  I eat much less bread than I used to after seeing how many calories are in bread.  I snack on things like almonds, cheese, and fruit rather than processed granola bars or candy.  We are making a big effort to eat less processed foods, and rarely do we make the just add water processed box dinners at night.  It really has been much easier than I thought it would.  I am rarely hungry during the day, even though I’m keeping my calorie count much lower.  Although I’m still entering my food in MFP every day (or, most days at least), I probably wouldn’t need to keep doing it.  I now know what I should and shouldn’t be eating, and I have an idea of when I have enough calories to spare to be able to indulge in a couple pieces of dark chocolate or a glass of wine at night. 

The other major change is I’ve added a significant amount of exercise to my routine.  I wrote about joining a gym back in June of 2010, and how I had started going to a class at my gym called Body Pump.  For the past 3 years, I’ve been going consistently to that 5:15 am class twice a week, and sometimes once on the weekends.  I would also occasionally, but not consistently, use the cardio equipment or attend a random spinning class. I saw a difference after I first started Pump, but it was nothing more than a little toning of my muscles.  Since May  when I started using MFP and seeing how many more calories I could eat in a day that I worked out, it made me want to go to the gym more and more!  The first change was I started another group fitness class at my gym called Body Attack.  It’s a 60 minute, high intensity cardio class. I had always heard that it was a great class and had seen people walking out if it dripping in sweat.  The instructor I like so much teaches it too, so that was motivation.  I was always worried it would require too much coordination, and I was hesitant to go that first time because I didn’t want to look like a dummy.  Well, for the most part, I did just fine that first time, and have been going once or twice a week ever since.  The other change was that I also signed up for the employee incentive program at the fitness center at my college.  For only $25, we can use the gym for the entire semester, and if we get the required number of hours in (33 for a 16 week semester), we get our money back.  We have a really nice gym there, and I really have no reason not to have been using it all these years.  My excuse was always that I didn’t want to go down there and get sweaty during the day and then have to go back to work. I have since decided that I didn’t care (nothing a little spritz of body spray and fresh deodorant can’t fix), and really enjoy taking a break from whatever I’m doing in my office to get a little exercise in the middle of the day.  So, if you’re counting, my workout routine has been something like this most weeks: Monday I either go to my gym at 5 am and do cardio or use the gym at work, Tuesdays at 5:15 am I go to Body Pump and then I fly trapeze on Tuesday nights (and some days still go down to my work gym for some cardio or a yoga class), Wednesday is 5:15 am Body Attack and some weeks, trapeze again, Thursday is 5:15 am Pump and sometimes another round of cardio at work, Fridays I tend to take off, but will sometimes do some light cardio at work…Saturday morning is Body Attack, and Sunday is another rest day.  It’s a great variety and it has really been fun.  I hate missing a work out, and try to make sure I’m allowing time for it almost every day.  My Body Pump instructor even asked me the other day what I’ve been doing because she noticed a change in my appearance.  That felt good….

So, long story short—I’ve met and exceeded my original goal of loosing 10 pounds.  I’ve actually lost more like 12-13 pounds, and have really toned up my muscles.  I’ve relaxed a little bit on my calorie counting since I’ve developed such a strong workout routine.  I know it’s important to get enough calories to be able to sustain that much activity.  It’s great to be able to see results and to feel so good.  I hope that I am able to keep up this routine, or at least most of it because I really do feel awesome.  Thanks to Dave for being so supportive (all of the extra mornings at the gym) and for being there to do it all with me.  Making fitness and health a part of our lifestyle is important—it’s important for us to be healthy and to feel good about ourselves (hello increased confidence!), but it’s also important that we’re teaching our children the value of being healthy and active.  They will see us making time to be active and they will hopefully value it themselves as they grow up.  Starting these healthy habits for our children young will help them to lead a healthy active lifestyle from the beginning.  I want to be one of those families that is active together!  I think we’re on our way…..

August 27, 2013

Ava's "good-bye song" from school

Ava started singing this song in the kitchen last night, so I had her do it again on camera.  I love her sweet little voice!  I'm sure (and I hope...) one day she'll correct her little speech imperfections, but for now I will just enjoy the sound of her sweet, sweet song.  Love you Ava girl! Thanks for sharing your class good-bye song with all of us! It starts out "Adios amigos, good bye my friends..."
On a side note, she was also singing in the shower last night, and I heard the words "geometric solids" in her song, which is one of the things she's been working on with Aunt Tina.  Glad to see this school stuff is sinking in!

Sea Life with Grandma & Grandpa

Since Ava is the only grand kid who is not yet in full time school, she gets to have a couple days a week when she gets Grandma Claire and Aunt Tina all to herself.  Tina's been taking Ava on Mondays and doing Montessori works with her, and she spends Wednesdays with Grandma Claire.  Ava is loving the Montessori stuff, and according to Tina, she's a really hard worker.  She asks to go to "Aunt Tina's school" all the time. More on that to come...

A couple weeks ago, Ava got to spend the day at the Sea Life Aquarium (in the AZ Mils Mall) with Grandma Claire AND Grandpa Ed!  What a lucky girl!  I didn't even know they were doing that until I saw pictures of her on Facebook with a sea turtle.  Grandma said that the turtles were her favorite, and that they seemed to love her!  It sure looks like it in these pictures.  It's funny that she wore her shark tie-dye shirt that day.  She made that when she went to Parkour Sarah's "Shark Week" party.  What a coincidence that she wore it to go see sea animals! Thanks for giving Ava such a fun day, Grandma!


August 24, 2013

The Mouse and the Motorcycle, Book 4—By Tyler

I mentioned that Tyler had started write a 4th book to the Mouse in the Motorcycle series, which is written by Beverly Cleary.  He started this a couple weeks ago, when he spent quite a bit of time one weekend sitting at my computer.  Now, he doesn’t know the proper way to type, and still needs to ask how to spell some words, but what you are about to read was completely done by Tyler.  There was about two paragraphs of conversation towards the end that I helped him type (he dictated to me and I typed), but for the most part, it was all him.  He will probably write more, and I will share it with you when he does.  For now, here is the initial draft of his book.  He is a bit concerned that Beverly Cleary might be mad that he’s writing this, but we assured him that as long as he’s not selling it, he should have to worry too much about copyright violations.  Enjoy!

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Keith returns

Ralph is a little brawn mouse who lived in 215 of the Mountain View inn. Ralph was waiting under the grandfather clock for night to come so he can ride his Laser XL7. The clock began to grind and groan and slowly let out eleven bongs vroom!

vroom! Ralph shot out from under the clock vroom! vroom! vroom! Ralph stopped three inches away from the wall.

Phew, that was close moorv! said Ralph to reverse the car. Uh oh said Ralph, here comes the night clerk. Vroom! Vroom! he raced back under the grandfather clock. A few minutes later he herd snoring. Ralph walked out from the clock and looked at the time. 11:59, it read. Tick tock tick tock tick tock.

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Ralph waited for the clock to tick ten times. Then the clock started grind and groan and let out twelve bongs. Vroom! Vroom! Ralph sped out from under the clock. vroom! vroom! moorv! eeeeach wahoo!

said Ralph. Eeeeeeeeeeeach the XL7 skids to a stop under the clock. Ding ling said the doorbell. Mr. Gridley and Mrs. Gridley and of course Keith. Keith, squeaked Ralph! I’ll be there in a minute, Keith said without moving his lips. Keith came to the grandfather clock to tell Ralph what he had for him. “So, Keith” said Ralph, “I’m expecting that you have something for me?” “You’re right, I do,” said Keith, “it’s a rocket!”said Keith wow that is cool I can ride a laser XL7 and a rocket now.” “Can I try,” asked Ralph? “Sure,” answered Keith.

“Where is the door,” asked Ralph? “There’s isn’t one,” said Keith, “you just have to sit on it.” “Ok, rrroooaaarrr!” The rocket took off around the lobby. It was just Matt in the lobby, so it didn’t matter that they were flying a rocket.

“Keith,” called Mr. Gridley, “it’s time to find our room.” Ralph was sad that he had to stop flying the rocket already. “See you tomorrow, Ralph,” said Keith.

Ryan steps into the lobby. “Ryan,” said Ralph, “did you invite them here?” “Yup,” answered Ryan. “Why,” asked Ralph? “Because we’re having a big party at a bowling alley said Ryan. I’ve heard about it but I’ve never seen it “Well, why didn’t you tell me yesterday,” asked Ralph? “I wanted it to be a surprise,” answered Ryan. “Oh, I get it, I like surprises” said Ralph. “When is the party?” “Tomorrow afternoon,” said Ryan. Garf and matt and your family. I also invited one of my friends from school. His name is Charles. Ryan! cold his mom I need you to help me do laundry! Ok said Ryan. See you tomorrow Ralph. He waved his paw.

To Be Continued….

August 23, 2013

Instagram update

So, for my regular blog readers who have been giving up on me posting any more, you’ll have to scroll down to catch up.  I think I posted about 5 posts today.  Here are a few of my favorite Instagram pictures from the past month….

Flashback Friday

Can you tell I’m trying to get caught up on some blogging tonight?  I’ve been going to bed so early every night since I’ve been getting up up at 4:45 am to work out almost every day, so I’ve been slacking on my blogging.  It’s been a long time since I’ve done a Flashback Friday post, so here we go.  These pictures were all from the month of August, over the past 7 years.  Enjoy!

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It just keeps getting better…..where will we be in the next 7 years?

Ava’s favorite game

Ever since Beth Ann babysat the kids last, Ava’s favorite game has been the one she played with her that night—Headbands.  She asks me to play it with her all the time!  You wear a card on your forehead, and the other person has to help you guess what the picture is.  We play a little different since Ava is still a little young to play by the real rules, but she loves to give clues and to guess what it is on her card. 

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Usually it’s just Ava and me that play Headbands, but Tyler gets in on the fun every now and then.  Ava is the queen of the game though—she could play through the entire stack of cards!  We’ve done them all so many times that the clues are pretty much the same every time and we know right away what the answer is.  We need to think of some unique clues to make it a bit more challenging!

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Snowballs in the summertime

It was the first week of classes at MCC, and we always have a few days of events and activities planned for the students.  On Wednesday, we ordered 4 coolers full of “snow”—or shaved ice—from Bahama Bucks.  They have party packs that come with the ice, cups, spoons and syrup.  We served about 200 students that day, but overestimated how much shaved ice we’d need, or more accurately, were too stingy on how full we made their cups worried it would run out.  At the end of the event, we had an entire cooler full of ice left over, and it obviously wasn’t going to last to be used for another event.  I knew most of the kids were at Kathy’s house after school that day, so I surprised them with a cooler full of snow for a summertime snow ball fight.  Bahama Bucks actually sells coolers of this ice for that exact purpose.  It is as close to real snow as I’ve seen.  It’s the finest ice, which makes it the most delicious summer treat. 

The kids were all swimming, and were super excited when they found out they got to have a real-life snow ball fight…in the summer, nonetheless.  They took turns throwing snow at each other as they jumped off the diving board, and Aunt Tina even got in on the action.  

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Ava took her turn too….how cute is she?!

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It wasn’t long before everyone got carried away and most of the kids ended up with snow down their swimsuits.  They would get a load in there and then jump in the pool so it’d melt.

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Talon was the funniest.  He kept going back for more snow in the shorts…..

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I’m sure Tina will love that I posted pictures of her in her swim suit, but her expressions in these pictures are the best. 

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Here goes Talon again….this time, he took a bunch of snow in the front!  He lasted for quite awhile before he had to jump in.  He said “ahhh, feel the burn!”

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Tyler kept saying “can we get this again whenever we want?!”  I said that maybe we’d do it again for his birthday next year, but that it was just a special thing since we didn’t use it all at work.  I still prefer to eat Bahama Bucks, but this was definitely more fun. 

Reading—our nightly ritual

Where have I been, you ask?  Well, I've been busy! Sorry I haven't been blogging as much lately.  I'll try to do better. More on what's keeping me so busy later, but for now, I'd like to share a little bit about our nightly ritual with you. 

When Tyler was born, my mom gave me a book all about the importance of reading to your children.  In the cover, she inscribed a message about always sharing with our children a love for books, and it ended with "read to them, read to them, read to them." Whether it was because of that message or because we just realize it's importance, we have done just that. When it was just Tyler, we would take turns reading to him before bed time starting about the time I was done nursing.  It seemed to take the place of that nightly ritual that was no longer necessary.  He would get to pick out his own books (and eventually needed to be given the limit of 3), and we would sit in the rocking chair and read.  He had some favorites along the way, and even learned them by memory when he was barely old enough to be talking.  Remember the video of him reading the race car book?  It's quite possibly one of my favorite videos ever. It became such an important part of the routine, that we ended up using the threat of NOT reading as punishment!  If he was being naughty before bed or having a hard time listening, we would usually need to say nothing more than "do you want to lose books?" and we'd typically see a quick change in behavior.  On the off chances that didn't work, we would have to take away a book at a time before he would shape up.  It was the worst punishment we could give! 

When little sister came around, we tried to start reading her books early too, but initially she didn't seem to have the same interest as her brother.  I was worried about it at first, but then we got into a routine of reading the same book every night before bed--Goodnight Moon, and it seemed to take off from there.  I can still recite all of Goodnight Moon from memory.  It didn't take long for Ava to get used to and expect her nightly books.  We take turns reading to each kid, but the usual arrangement is Ava and I read together and Dave and Tyler read.  If Dave is gone for bed time, the kids and I pile in my bed and we read together--same for when I'm not home.  Sometimes, the kids will fight over who gets to have Daddy read to them, but rarely do they fight over me.  He must really be good at it! After books, both of the kids go to sleep easily, with no trouble at all.  We have established such a great night time routine, that bedtime is never a stressful or difficult experience.  They just know what's going to happen--jammies, teeth brushed, books and then lights out (Ava likes to have her back tickled for a little while). 

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I'm usually pretty glad to be the one reading to Ava.  Tyler's books are too technical most of the time!  Especially when he was deep into his space craze, the books were very information heavy.  At one point, Dave was even reading Tyler portions from the book "The Particle at the End of the Universe" which is a physics book about splitting atoms or something crazy like that. Recently, Dave has started reading chapter books to Tyler.  They've read the entire Mouse in the Motorcycle series (and Tyler even started writing a 4th book to it on his own--I'll share soon), Measle and the Rathmonk, Captain Awesome, and a few others. He especially Since he is able to read on his own now, he use the huge selection on his bookshelf for his reading logs for school, and enjoy a chapter book with his Dad (sometimes Mom, when Ava wins the fight over Dad reading to her).  
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I wonder how long Tyler will want us to read to him?  I know there will come a time when he is grown up enough to either read on his own before bed, or simply decides he's too big to have his Dad reading to him.  I have a feeling it won't last too much longer.  He is getting to be much more comfortable reading on his own, and soon enough he'll be reading chapter books to himself at night.  For now, we'll enjoy this special, quiet time we have with our kids each night.  We'll always remember this time in our kids lives when we shared this important routine.  I know they will be more well-rounded individuals because of it, and hopefully we are instilling in them a love for reading that will last them throughout their lifetime.  
August 21, 2013

Wordless Wednesday